I never thought it would be so hard to start a family. The struggle has been real, it's hard to even explain the ups and downs associated with trying to become pregnant. My husband has held me many a night as I cried when it was too much to bare. He knows that look I get when I see a family in church with their kids, and he reached his arm around me to hold me tight. He always reassures me that we will have kids someday. Don't get me wrong we feel the greatest love and joy for all of our friends and family who have had the opportunity to have children. We pray for them every night, and hope that they have happy healthy families. Thank you for taking the time to get to know us and read our profile. We greatly admire you and the strength it takes to make this sort of decision. We cannot wait for the opportunity to be parents.
Fielding Family Established May 4, 2012
Scott and I met on a trip with mutual friends. I knew that I liked his personality from the minute I met him. I have always felt comfortable with Scott. When I moved to Logan for school it became the perfect place for us to get to know each other. We dated for six months and were married three months later in the Manti Temple. He truly is the love of my life and we grow in love more and more each day. We have similar interests and love hanging out with each other even if we are not doing anything. We love camping, hunting, fishing, traveling, listing to audio books, being silly, movie nights, and being with friends and family we love.We moved to Moab Utah where I had signed a contract with the elementary school to finish my practicum in social work. Scott continued with his prerequisites for the nursing program here at the USU extension in Moab. We wanted to start our family 8 months after being married. We have been through a lot as a couple dealing with deaths of loved ones, sickness', and struggling to have kids. Through all this we have grown a deeper love for each other and an even greater love for our Heavenly Father. Our relationship has been greatly centered around prayer, church, scripture study, and preparing for future children.
About Scott:
Scott was born and raised in a little town in Utah called Koosharem. Never heard of it? It's okay neither had I. He grew up camping, hunting, fishing, 4 wheeling, and exploring. He was a boy scout in every sense of the word. Scott graduated high school where he was the president of Speech and Debate and also FBLA where he took two national titles. He went on to serve a full time Spanish speaking mission in northern New Jersey. Scott loved his mission and the people he met and taught. There will always be a special love for those two years in his life where he grew and learned so much. He came home from his mission and his dad passed away a short time later from two types of sudden, rare forms of cancer. We met two weeks later, I like to think his dad had a hand in our meeting. All of these experiences have shaped Scott into the man he is today. Scott is my best friend. Scott has a big heart and he has always had a gift that make people want to talk to him. He is very helpful and loves to have fun. Scott shares the same family goals as I do and is so supportive. Scott is a natural leader and teacher, he has taught in the nursery, primary, young men and women's, and the Elders quorum. He can lift others by the humility and love he possesses. He is always striving to improve himself. Most importantly he is a worthy priesthood holder in our home. I know I can turn to him and council together with God to make the best decisions. His patriarchal blessing says that, "(His) home will be a place of peace, love, and harmony where the Gospel is lived and taught". I cannot wait for Scott to be a dad. He will make a great leader, father, and example to our future children.
About Amberlee:
My mission president told me in my last interview before leaving the mission to find a wife and to get married. I expressed concerns to him that I was bad at choosing good girls. His advice was to find a woman who would drag me kicking and screaming to the Celestial Kingdom and I do believe Amberlee would. I love her with all my heart she is the most tender, caring person I have ever met. She is the kindest person I know. Amberlee has always loved to serve others especially her family. Her older sister is disabled both physically and mentally. She has always taken care of her getting her off the school bus everyday, feeding her, changing her, and singing her to bed. She nannied almost her whole life and has practically raised many children already in her short 26 years of life. Her favorite subject to talk about is, "this is what we should do with our children...". Her greatest goal in life is to have a family. Amberlee is very smart as well, she graduated from Snow College with the Service Scholar Award and Cum Laude (latin for awesome GPA) from Utah State University with a bachelors degree in social work. She is that woman that is always wrapped up in a new project and craft. I've spent many hours helping her sand an old piece of furniture she wants to bring back to life. She is outdoorsy and loves to go camping and archery hunting. She loves to play on the beach and be drug around behind the boat at Lake Powell. She spends all her time serving others and thinking of new ways to improve herself. She is so deserving of children and I would do anything to help fulfill her dreams of being a mom. She has helped me become a better man since I have been married to her. I love her.
We would like our first time as parents to be as close to the real thing as possible. We want to experience all of the ups and downs of having a young baby, for this reason we would like to adopt a newborn if circumstances permit through private adoption.
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